Lighten UP

I had a lesson last night with Roy.  Rave did pretty well but I have lost our 5th gear.  In attempting to make her less pushy I have lost the speed when I really need it.  Also had trouble with getting her to reverse direction on the drive.  She knows that she is doing a cross drive and even though I wanted to go the other way she figured I was making a mistake and continued on her straight drive.  It was a nice drive LOL.  So I gave her a very harsh verbal correction. I have to change that.  Stop her.  Let her settle a bit and think before I give her a change that she might figure is a mistake.  Wonder how she came to that conclusion?  That I don't know what I am doing LOL